и двете са Венера/Меркурий....
трябва да си изчистваме кармичните задължения....и да вървим напред...
Venus quincunx Mercury:
What does it mean to your relationship when your natal Venus is quincunx your partner’s Mercury? You do not share your romantic partner’s ideas about love, beauty, romance, and domestic matters because you are looking at relationships with two very different sets of concepts. If your romantic partner’s Venus is quincunx to your Mercury, he/she has difficulty understanding your sense of style, elegance, and aesthetics, and will need to adjust to your thinking and taste.
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people should take a closer look at quincunx in synastry. Generally speaking , a quincunx in synastry would work like a quincunx in a natal chart. Since quincunx is formed when one planet is 150 degree from the other , it has the effect of both the trine and the opposite. However, it is neither one of them. The quincunx can give a refreshing and ecstatic feelings between two people involved , yet its trine effect could easily die out and replaced by the opposition effect , where one finds the other's taste too different . As a result , this could cause a sharp fall in interests and benevolent feelings towards one another , making both feel anxious, upset and disappointed.
Sometimes the Venus person has very high expectations for the relationship she/he is in. And sometimes , it works out so well and the loving feelings are just bliss and amazing . But just as she/he thinks everything is going well , the situation could just turn upside down without any warning , leaving one baffled and in disbelief. The continuously push and pull cycle could negate one's health. To solve this rather exhausting aspect , both persons should try to adjust their approaches and lower their expectations. However , the quincunx between two benefics is not very harsh to deal with , they can be easily overpowered by other major aspects in the synastry chart.
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When your Mercury forms a challenging aspect (square, opposition, or quincunx) to your partner's Venus, the exciting exchange of ideas may eventually be the source of some conflict. This is not a highly challenging aspect. In truth, the fact that these two planets form an aspect at all is quite stimulating, suggesting a flow of ideas between the two of you. However, a challenging aspect can suggest that both of you compete a little in your communications. Instead of truly listening to each other, and taking turns expressing yourselves, you often cut each other off in your excitement to share each other's own stories or perspectives. One or both of you, perhaps at different times, may sometimes feel the other person is self-centered.
Try not to let this problem become a major source of irritation—it needn't be! Be aware that the way your energies combine creates an exciting and stimulating flow of ideas and exchanges.
Your partner might sometimes interpret what you say as somewhat shallow or unnecessarily factual. A healthier approach would be for your partner to encourage you to spice up your chatter with feeling and imagination, helping you to infuse your conversations with more warmth and color. You might find your partner's conversations a little vain or illogical at times. Ideally, you will add some analysis and facts to his/her stories, helping your partner to expand his/her conversations beyond simply putting himself/herself in the spotlight. Your feelings towards each other are sometimes misunderstood too, with one of you perhaps feeling more romantic and the other person feeling inclined towards logic. Your Venus partner, in particular, might be in a romantic frame of mind, only to face a certain level of detachment in your Mercurial responses.
When the aspect between Mercury and Venus is a flowing one (sextile or trine), your Venus partner expands your horizons in the areas of leisure and the arts (music, culture, art, and literature, for example), and, often unconsciously, attempts to "soften" your sensibilities. While your Venus partner is subtly sensitizing your outlook, you stimulate your partner to talk about, and give form and structure to, these pleasures. There is a natural and mutual sensitivity to each other, and very often you are capable of finishing each other's sentences because of this attunement. You encourage each other to express yourselves, and there is an easy flow of communication as a result. How comforting! In fact, this aspect helps smooth over other areas that might be problematic in the relationship, simply because there is an uncomplicated element to communications that helps put both parties at ease. When the aspect is a conjunction, the interaction can go either way, but it is very likely that you find a lot of common ground and complement each other well.
Даже Анжелина Дjоли и Brad Pitt имат Венера куuнконс Меркурии
A positive blend of the personal planets of Mercury and Venus is a desirable one for an intimate union, and certainly advantageous to any association that requires harmony and collaboration. Therefore it is unfortunate that this combination is a difficult one. This association of planets indicates incompatibility in a relationship. No matter how hard Angelina and Brad try they find it hard to relax in each other’s company. Disharmony seems to infiltrate their union at every turn. The problem is that Angelina and Brad simply cannot find any common ground for agreement. Their opinions and values clash, which makes any shared activities fraught with tension. In particular Brad feels that he is subjected to Angelina’s unnecessary criticism. Brad feels unappreciated and lonely, unable to share warm and loving moment required in his relationship. On the other hand Angelina believes that she cannot express his opinions freely without being misunderstood. Angelina loses confidence in her communication abilities and possibly withdraws her attention from the relationship. The extent of the difficulties in this relationship depends on other aspects of Angelina and Brad’s association. The positive side is that Angelina and Brad are attracted to each and can work towards improving their communication skills. In this way they may learn to value each other.
--това успях да ти намеря само,..съjaлявам,че не мога да помогна с повече,но нямам опит с куuнконсите
